One of the things that occurred to me is that many of us on Terra tend to be influenced by our parents, and a lot of the seeking of approval is something learned very young and is carried into adulthood.
 

EQ:  And passed down from generation to generation getting the whole of humanity messed up.

Exactly.

EQ:  What a wondrous gift.  What a great legacy.

My question is how do we break this infinite chain we’ve created?

EQ:  Thee start with the young ones.  Thee start with the young ones.

And what do you mean by that?

EQ:  Thee start when the child is very young by separating the behaviors from being, and letting this being know that it is special just because it is; that it does not need to be special in anyone else’s eyes.

Except its own.

EQ:  Its own.  It is a rarified gift that it is a portion of God, and God makes no mistakes, does it?

Right.

EQ:  And then, impress this on the parent.  The more that this is done -  we know that thee do not like to get in the face of someone raising their children - but thee must.  Too many entities are creating children that are vastly and terribly flawed.  And so much pain comes to them and from them because of this.  Start with the children and work up to the parents, for the parents are also in pain.  This is how it works.