Please explain how we tend to draw to us, in some instances, people who do not appreciate what we give or those who do not appreciate what they have.
EQ: But this is not necessarily so, for what actually occurs is that all entities upon Terra are continually dissatisfied. Is this not so?
ALL entities upon Terra are continually dissatisfied?
EQ: All entities on Terra are continually dissatisfied with something. Whether it be lack of knowledge, lack of money, lack of harmony, lack of good health, is this not so?
Thatís probably true.
EQ: And is it not a function of Terrans to consistently be looking outward for their fulfillment?
Yes, a lot of them do.
EQ: Why would this be different within a relationship with another entity? No answer?
EQ: What we would say, we have said before: that thee were never thrown from the Garden of Eden that thee live in it but thee have forgotten to see it. Within a relationship, then, is it not so that it is easy to forget to be joyous of what thee have with in that relationship the longer thee are in it? And look outward and think that something might be more exciting? It is thy craving to feel the linkage and thy inability to allow it that makes thee always strive for something other than what thee have. We are not saying that striving is a bad thing for it is not. What we are saying is striving to strive is wondrous. Striving because thee are living in lack as thy perception not as thy reality is silly, is it not?
Yes. So what steps can be taken, what advice can you give for us to recognize that in ourselves and then not be that way?
EQ: We shall do a meditation that we hope shall help this thing but we would also say how many entities within this room, each day, look over those beings in thy life and be grateful for them, even those beings that are being difficult in thy life. For in this difficulty do thee not learn, do thee not grow, do thee not prosper in knowledge? And with those entities closest to thee, allow thyself to not forget the excitement that was once a part of that relationship and then be looking outside of it for excitement. For nothing truly has changed except that it is no longer an unknown. Predictability becomes boring to Terrans when instead it should be wondrously secure. But this brings back to mind what we have said most often, Terrans look to one other being for total fulfillment and this is not possible. If instead Terrans allowed themselves to understand that there is no lack that whatever thee give will multiply not deplete and if thee can love one entity fully it is not impossible to love two or three or ten fully in all ways and have that love grow for the original being, not diminish.
Thatís the tricky part.
EQ: It is only tricky because Terrans believe in lack. Thee feel that if thy loved one does not focus entirely upon thee but shares love with another it will take away from thee. But it only takes away because thee are pushing the entity away then or the entity themselves is feeling so much guilt, they pull away, is this not so? If instead, all entities understood that love is an energy just as thee are energy. Energy does not diminish. Energy grows. If thee have all the lights on in thy house, is a light in here diminished? Only if thy wiring is screwed up, is this not so? Is this not so with thee? If thy wiring is screwed up thee feel lack. If instead thee have true connectedness with all that is and know we are plugged in everywhere and there be sufficient for all beings then thee do not become possessive, thee do not become bitter that thy neighbor appears to have something thee do not. Instead thee know that what thy neighbor has is also what thy have and can have if thee choose. Dost thou understand?
The power of choice.
EQ: It is more than the power of choice it is the power of absolute belief. Thy absolute belief is that there is not enough. This is the absolute belief on Terra.
Because people donít.
EQ: Because people believe there is not enough. They just accept this as a fact instead of that there is so much more than enough. And if all beings shared, they could not even devastate all that is.
I have a question for you on that. At one point you had told us - and Iím not going to remember the exact numbers - but you had told us that this planet could sustain "X" number of people fully and we had completely overrun that number by a way long shot.
EQ: Dost thou know why?
EQ: Why we said this?
Why did you say that then?
EQ: In the consciousness of this planet if the belief is in lack then there is a belief in hoarding - is this not so - not sharing. If thee all shared and added back energy instead of just taking it there would be more than enough for many, many, many more. Is there not abundant land still not used? But the reality is that, in thy belief in lack, thee take and hoard and do not recharge. Eventually all things then are not depleted they are withheld. Dost thou understand? This is the difference.
So, itís our belief in lack that creates that limitation of what the world supplies.
EQ: It is thy belief in misinformation that creates thy beliefs in all things. Thee believe thee cannot walk through walls, is this so?
Weíre quite sure of it.
EQ: But thy scientists have told thee that the walls have more spaces than they have concreteness, is this not so? Why can thy not just put thyself through the spaces?
Because we donít believe it.
But the consciousness is that all things are possible. Right?
EQ: Reality is that what is perceived manifests. Whatever is perceived manifests, maybe not this moment, for thee are living on a planet that must do this in tandem. Dost thou understand? Thee are choosing to grow together - this is linkage. If thee had chosen to grow separately thee wouldnít be Terrans.
Why do we forget that?
EQ: Is it that thee forget it or is it that thee forget how to believe? We do not believe thee forget it, we believe thee know it. As small children did thee not believe that all thee needed to do was wish and thee could have whatever thee wanted? Thee didnít forget it - thee stopped believing it.
It seems experience can to teach you that it is otherwise. As a kid I could wish and wish and wish for a pony but, when I never got the pony, then you start thinking "Oh well, the wishing doesnít do any good."
EQ: And is it possible that thy wishing for the pony was expressed to others who told thee this was impossible? And did thee not, on some level, then accept the impossible to be?
EQ: Ah! Believing in disbelief - isnít it wonderful what it can do for thee?
We recently had a wonderful example in our circle of believing and getting.
EQ: More than one example - many examples. But how many entities, in their life, look at all the things that they believed that manifested - including negative beliefs that manifested? Thee never do this. It is a rarity unless a big thing manifests - thee win a lottery - then thee can say, "Oh, yes, I created that." Thee lose the lottery - how many say, "Oh, yes, I created that."?
Thatís the harder one to accept. When jobs fall through and all hell breaks loose, itís hard to say "I created that". I find it easy to say "I created that" but I canít for the life of me figure out why I created that.
EQ: And is that relevant?
I thought it would be because I thought if I could find out why Iím creating those negative thought patterns then I could change those negative thought patterns.
EQ: Dost thou not understand what a wondrous trap this is? If thee constantly must know the Why of thy existence then thee can continue to fail because thee canít find the Why. If instead thee say, "Hmm, interesting that I chose to do this. I think Iíll try something different next time." - is this not a better approach?
Sure sounds easier.
EQ: Thee can also say, "There must be a reason I did not get that. Something within me knew this was not the best path." and move forward. Instead thee get stuck in what thee wanted - supposedly - that thee didnít really want.
I get what youíre saying as far as the Why goes but to me thatís education. So youíre saying "no" because weíre just in a vicious circle.
EQ: If thee have a NEED for the Why then thee will be stuck in that path forever. Often when thee allow thyself to just move forward, the Why becomes evident.
Without torturing yourself with the need to know why because it will come just as the events that took place, took place because that is what was supposed to come.
EQ: We would suggest to the entities here tonight to spend some time looking back ten years and see what wasnít working and we will bet that thee will see the Why - different perspective.
My Dad says hindsight is 20/20.
EQ: Release the need to know at the moment of something and the
answer will be there faster.